A relationship between a woman and a man is a relationship between a woman and the world. Every step into that bond means that a social group will overpower her individuality, because she will never be seen as an equal, in spite of the actual progressive trend in the world politics.
A male
partner with more power, being that social, financial, professional or even emotional, will
always try to control the power of his female partner, and this will mostly be
accomplished with the help of his surroundings and acquaintances. Professional
referrals, favours, buddy groups, networking. All of these supposedly meritocratic
or friendly acts are but means of control or a tool for power struggle.
There are
women in these groups too. They also can be the buddy in a group without
realising the harm she is causing to herself. Many women live sleepwalking in
life and projecting her dreams onto a path of delusions. There is no worst enemy to a woman than naivety.
The reality is that a woman
will never be able to truly detach herself from a man, unless he wants it to. Because the world helps him.
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